First Thoughts…

Don’t just exist…live.

This is my first post. By rights and tradition, I suppose I am required to give an introduction of sorts…but I wont. I don’t want to follow the “rules”. In a world that requires us to constantly think before we act, it would be nice to just “wing it”…so that’s what I am doing for my first post…I’m wingin’ it!

I will warn you, I’m brass, not politically correct, extremely candid and am most of the time unaware when I’ve offended someone….mostly because, while I have an uncanny ability to find tact in talking with people, I often find that causes people not to listen the way they should hear what I’m trying to tell them and I end up having to break it down anyway.

I will take any type of questions, comments and concerns someone wants to pose to me. I’ll never claim to have all the answers, but I will claim to provide a different point of view and a chance to alter and grow how you, and even I, see, think, and feel about any given situation.

I am very rarely offended so don’t be afraid to be candid in return; however, you will be respectful, or feel free to go on about your business. If what I have to say doesn’t apply to you, then maybe it applies to someone you know so be sure to share and tag at will. Remember to like a post and leave a comment if you’d like. I will respond accordingly.

This is an open forum and private chat through initial contact…at the moment all you can do is email me; however, I can promise that I will email you back. I will give fair warning though, if you ask me a question I will give you a very truthful answer so if the answer you’re looking for requires me to tell you what I think you want to hear then you are most definitely in the wrong place.

You are all welcome to share your experiences, this is a no-judgement place to share thoughts, ask questions, give input and hopefully learn something. I expect everyone to be honest and encourage everyone to be as open as possible. Like the picture that is first viewed on this page, be an open book. Allow yourself to be open to see things from a whole different point of view. You’d be surprised what you might find out about yourself.

This blog/vlog will grow, pages will be added, share often, take in what I have to say and apply it; it could inevitably change your life. I speak on relationships, self improvement, self love, self acknowledgement, anger management, trauma, ailments, disabilities, the military, finances, food, raising children…you name it and you’ll probably find it in here. So I invite you to grow with my page and link yourself into something that will be an amazing adventure. So, while there’s not much here yet, stay tuned and watch as the adventures unfold. The paid services will be added shortly as the site develops so be sure to visit back and subscribe/follow to get updates.

I will also be offering services-private counseling sessions, budgeting, research, writing and many more subjects. I have more than 10 years of human resource experience, as well as, life counseling. I have a vast knowledge in most everything that I will speak on and you’ll find that there is little that I speak about that I have not done extensive research on.

With that, I am sure that I’ve missed something because my brain somewhat resembles that of a goldfish at times, I will leave you with this.

“Life is 10% what happens to you, and 90% how you react to it.” ~Dennis P. Kimbro, Ph.D.

The above quote stands true in every situation you will come across in your life. Especially because in this fast paced society it seems to be every man/woman for themselves. The days of helping someone on the side of the road that has car trouble, and it taking a village to raise a child are long gone. With that, I urge everyone still with me to think about the fact that you have absolutely no control over what happens to you, around you, or without you; so, consider, instead, that you have absolute control over how your react to the previous stated.

This will no-doubt lead into my next post, but until next time….I bid you adieu.

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2 thoughts on “First Thoughts…”

    1. I love you too, dear sister of mine! So much, and I miss you more than that!!!
      I want to help people, I want people to learn through my words, thoughts, emotions and any other way I can give someone insight into themselves, then a conversation has to be started. Even if all someone can do is read what I have to say and apply it liberally to their lives or someone else…just one person, then I’ve made my mark. I have so much knowledge and experience to share. Thank you so much for your support!!!
      I think I am going to expand and make a FB page that is dedicated just for counseling and my posts from here…or do you think that would be redundant?


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